If you are considering divorce, you must learn these crucial pre-exit strategies to protect yourself. Must-know pre-divorce measures ensure security. I'm going to share with you five things you can do to ensure that you transition through divorce with grace, love, and clarity. Implement all of these steps and unlock your potential for ultimate success in both this divorce process and in the next chapter of your life’s story.
Number One: Hire a divorce coach
Someone like myself can help you navigate the business side of divorce. A professional can provide you with all of the information and step-by-step processes to ensure that your meetings with your lawyers, and financial advisors, conversations with your spouse, and with your children go smoothly. I have created a planning guide to help you navigate the business side of divorce. You'll understand the process and gain clarity about what's best for you and your family during this time. Working with a divorce coach, you will also have someone that you can lean on, someone that you can talk to, vent, and discuss things with. You don't have to walk this path and transition through divorce on your own.
Number Two: Speak with several lawyers
Prepare questions and find the lawyer that best aligns with how you want to transition through divorce. Talk to them about how they work, who they work with, and what their values are. How much will the process cost and be prepared.
Number Three: Find a financial expert to work with
During a marriage, sometimes one person handles most of the finances. Maybe that's you, maybe that’s your partner, and maybe the financial expert that you're working with right now works with both of you. In such a situation it might be a good idea for you to find someone who can work with only you to understand your new financial situation moving forward.
Number Four: Be prepared for difficult conversations
Think about how you want to transition through this divorce. Prepare the conversations you will have with other professionals, with your spouse, and with your children to get across everything that you need, everything that you want, everything that's important to you. This is the ending of a relationship that you have with your spouse now, the beginning of a new relationship with your spouse, and a new relationship with your entire family.
Number Five: Do the inner work
Transitioning through a divorce is a loss. It's a grieving process and it's also a time for learning and growth. It's a time for you to rediscover who you are, what you want, where you're headed, your new future, and how does that look? It's the time for you to see where you could have been better in your relationship, and where you can be better as a parent. It's a learning and growing process if you want it to be.
I hope this helps. This process can be uncertain and unclear. If you’re looking for a professional to work with, you can schedule a call with me, I’m here to help you through this journey.
Know that you're worthy, you are loved, you are important.
Wendy
xoxo
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